Golden Shower: Everything you want and need to know
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2023-07-04 14:44:45
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The golden shower, golden shower or golden shower is the act of urinating or receiving the urinary stream from a partner. This sexual fetish is capable of taking many forms, such as urinating in front of someone or on the body or face of a sexual partner. In some cases, urine is even drunk.
Many people can get excited when it comes to urine. And as many say that between four looks anything goes, why not get to know this fetish too to spice up your relationship? It is worth remembering that, of course, you are not obligated to do anything!
Golden shower Story
The correct term for a golden shower is urolagnia. This term comes from the ancient Greek words ouron, meaning urine, and lagneia, meaning lust. It is categorized as a paraphilia, an intense sexual arousal related to places, people and events.
According to the New Partridge Dictionary of Slang, the concept and definition of a golden shower dates back to 1943. The first recorded mention in the literature was in the 1972 memoir of a prostitute entitled The Happy Hooker by Xaviera Hollander. In it, she discussed a famous television producer who would pay her to perform the golden shower act on it.
The first mention in popular music was in the 1979 song “Bobby Brown Goes Down” by Frank Zappa. Frank explains that it can "take about an hour in the power tower as long as I have a little golden shower."
Can you combine it with other fetishes?
Golden showers are often combined with domination and humiliation fetishes. For someone to release waste on you is the final act of degradation, from which many people can derive sexual emotions. Some people may just enjoy watching it, while others may enjoy combining it with oral sex at the same time.
A golden shower of BDSM is one that is directly related to aspects of humiliation. In this type of scenario, the submissive partner will be pissed off or forced to drink the dominant's urine. This can be done using a funnel, cup or other accessories.
What's the attraction?
Golden showers and urine fetishes are quite common in the fetish scene. Many people crave the humiliating aspect of being pissed off. For others, it can be a totally sensory experience.
Heat and smell can trigger intimacy between people. The element of being a private act can also help in this bonding. Of course, many people can simply be exhibitionists and revel in it for the thrill of being watched.
Are there any hygiene issues?
Urine is not as dirty as people think. While the concept of being sterile is a myth, urine is pretty clean waste. Unless the person peeing has an infection, everything should be fine. So you can get dirty as much as you want, as long as you keep yourself safe.
Everything contains bacteria, especially the ones that exist in our body. However, not all bacteria are bad, and this could be the type in your urine, the positive, good, healthy bacteria. Urine may gain some extra bacteria as it leaves the body and touches the skin, but this will be minimal.
It's safe?
Golden showers are safer than sharing many other body fluids and tend to carry less risk of infection. They can be dangerous if the person urinating has a bladder or urinary tract infection, HPV, or yeast infections.
Where can you practice?
Many fetish clubs and adult sex clubs hold 'water sports' and golden shower nights. In fact, any S&M club almost certainly will.
Interestingly, many hotels, particularly the more upscale ones, will be more than willing to let you experience 'water sports' in their suites without incurring any extra costs. While some might add a few, some even ask you to state your intention before you arrive so they can put waterproof mattress pads on the bed.
If not, then it will have to be in the comfort of your own home. If you have a large bathtub or shower, this would be the perfect place to start. If not, you can consider putting plastic sheets or other specific protectors for the golden shower. Some people even suggest inflatable pools.
Tips for the perfect golden shower
First, find the right partner. A golden shower has to excite both parties (or more). If one of you (or more) really doesn't like this, it's probably best to find another fetish that you both can enjoy.
Plan ahead
Make sure you drink plenty of fluids. Your urine should not be golden, it should be a light and healthy color.
It is recommended that you do the golden shower at night. In the morning, your body stores most of your waste during the night.
Decide where you will carry out your task
Many people cannot pee on demand, especially when excited. Enjoy the moment, try to relax with your partner.
Ways to practice the Golden Shower
We've prepared a list for you with some different ways to practice golden shower.
Seeing partner urinate
This is one of the milder forms of the practice, where the excitement is in the act of seeing or letting him see you urinate. This can be very exciting, especially if it's in environments other than a bathroom, so be creative in your sex life.
During the shower
The fetish can start when both are in the shower and things are starting to spice up: in this case, only one can urinate, or both simultaneously. Those who have already showered with their partner and urinated or observed urinating, in a way, practiced urophilia, even without realizing it.
Urinating on the other's body
Some couples enjoy being wet during sex, if this is your case, urinating on the person's body is a good option. One or both urinate on the partner's body before, during, or after sex. This practice when related to submission, the fetish is seen as punishment to humiliate the submissive partner.
Drink your partner's urine
Here, it is for the more advanced, where the couple reaches the stage of urinating on the partner's face and mouth, even drinking the other's urine. This practice can also be done by just one or both in the relationship, the most important thing is to enjoy the moment.