Many people have no idea how to deal with XL penis but they want to try. Risks and challenges change. If you don't have proper practice or technique, you can get hurt. Here are some safety tips for dealing with an XXL penis. And if you're a particularly gifted asset, here's some important information you need to make your sex the best it can be.

Bottom: You have to train your tail

Practice regularly - say once a week - with sex toys. Find insertable toys, plugs (look here), dildos, inflatables, etc) made exclusively for anal. Start small. If you have trouble getting two fingers, don't buy a toy much larger than your two fingers in circumference, or much longer.

Once a week, lubricate your toy and gently slide it into your tail. The feeling may not be comfortable at first but it stays that way. Go slow. If it starts to hurt, stop, relax and try again. Go with what's good. If you like to slide it in and out slowly, do that and try to increase the speed. See how long you can extend this sensation - don't just masturbate and call it a day. Remember, this isn't about masturbation - it's about training your ass to increase your stamina.

Start small and scale up

Once your beginner-sized insertable toy becomes easy to penetrate, buy one that's a little bigger and give it a try. Stick with this one for a while, then move on to a bigger one. Don't rush, going too fast or too high can cause injuries. The skin on your ass is very delicate. Anal fissures happen.

These are small tears in the rectum that are usually, but not always, painless. Most of them will heal on their own after a few weeks if you leave your ass alone and take a sex/toy break. Until they heal completely, anal fissures are an open door to sexually transmitted infections such as HIV. If there is a lot of blood or if you are in pain, go to the hospital.

As you practice and increase in size, you'll develop the ability to comfortably receive (and enjoy) larger sizes in your ass. Whenever you reach a moment of discomfort, stop and breathe slowly and deeply. Feel your muscles relax and adjust to size. This process works. The anal sphincter - the tight circular muscle at the base of the rectum will stretch and release. Over time, if you want to explore the depths, you will find that deeper sphincters lead to higher sections in the lower parts of the small intestine.

Oral also requires training but be careful

The throat has limited stretching capacity and you should not push it. You cannot train the throat to open much more than it can. You can train yourself to minimize your gag reflex, and this is best done with a patient partner. Unlike some self-styled "experts" on the Internet, I don't believe you should slide items down your throat, so ignore the advisors who suggest practicing with a banana or wall-mounted vibrator. The risk of suffocation is not worth it.

Make your partner stand still. You are in control. Slide his penis slowly across the roof of his mouth to the back of his throat. See how far you can comfortably go. Breathe through your nose. You may find it more comfortable to slide his penis to the left side. Try both sides to see which works best.

In moments of discomfort, take a break, breathe through your nose and see if you can go further. Take breaks and stop when you want to stop. Do this on your knees while looking up at the ceiling or better yet, but more intimidating, lie on your back with your head hanging slightly over the edge of the bed so that your throat is in line with your mouth and make it go in slowly. .

With toys, simple is always best

We recommend starting training with small, soft anal plugs. Basic, simple shapes without a lot of ridges, bumps, or extra features work best. Classic teardrop or teardrop shaped anal plugs are great, anything that tapers smoothly from a wider rounded section to a narrower one. Don't go for those rough, "realistic" dildos or plugs with sculpted veins and ridges. A rounded object like a butt plug forces your anus to open and close and it's best to train yourself to experience and enjoy the stretch.

Top: Listen to bottom

This is the kind of asset you should be. Listen to bottom feedback, and if you're too rough, apologize and be kinder next time. If he's having oral sex, read his body language and don't go beyond his resistance. If he is wincing in pain or putting his hand against you, stop, tell him to take a deep breath and ask him to let you know when he is ready to continue. The best assets are those who carefully read the body language of the bottom. If you take it slow, establish trust, and give someone permission to comfortably "let go" and surrender, sex will be much better than anything forced or rushed.

Bring training for prelims

Ass/throat training is a great way to start sex if you have a patient partner who will listen and go at your pace. Usually, after some time of stretching and playing with anal plugs, the gifted top will be able to enjoy much more, as will the bottom one.

Use silicone lubricant for sex

When storing toys, save the water-based lubricant. Use silicone-based lube for sex if your partner is well endowed. Water-based lube dries quickly and doesn't have that silky, velvety sheen that silicone lube has.

Yes, silicone is very messy. Yes, it stains the sheets, so make sure you put old towels on the floor and keep extra towels nearby so you don't have to touch everything on the way to the bathroom to clean up afterwards. The pros of silicone are worth the cons: you won't need to keep applying lube, and a little goes a long way.

Do not use anal lubricant with anesthetics

Anal lubricants with anesthetics are very easy to find in most sex shops, however we do not sell them. Masking your body's natural limits and overriding your pain receptors by having anal is an easy way to get hurt. Anesthetic lubricant is not safe.

Alternatively, there are lubricants with relaxants or relaxing sprays that just help you feel more relaxed but not numb! See >> HERE

If you use poppers, use them only as support

"Poppers" is a slang term for various inhalant chemicals called nitrites. When you inhale the chemicals, they give you that classic "head rush" that is notorious for relaxing the body's muscles. Poppers have a relaxing effect on smooth muscle tissue (throat tissue, anal tissue), which is why so many gay men use them, especially for larger penises and more extreme sex. If you're a poppers user, that's fine. But if you're training your butt, don't use them continuously. You'll probably get a bad headache and it won't do anything to help you train for XL penises.

Don't try to copy what you see in pornography

If you have a fantasy of being aggressively penetrated for hours, you still need some warm-up. You can achieve these dreams with practice and patience, but not without hard work. In pornography, stars are naturally primed and ready for violence. You never see the initial stretch, training, stops, setbacks or years of practice. Never see when someone simply needs a break because they are edited. Pornography cuts out all the real things real people do in sex, the hiccups and messes that make it wonderful.

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